Beyond Idols, Towards Freedom
A HaMakom Mindfulness Retreat
with
Rabbi Sheila Weinberg
and
Dr Mira Niculescu
ONLINE participation
Saturday evening, 4 December - Sunday 5 December 2021
We’re delighted to be able to offer online participation in this Chanukah retreat, which is also taking place as a residential weekend. Online participation will begin from 5pm UK time on Saturday 4 December, and continue until the end of the residential retreat, at 4pm UK time on Sunday 5 December.
There will be a special orientation session at the beginning of the online retreat, and after that you will be connected with the in-person event via Zoom. You are invited to participate in the way that works for you: this might be immersing fully into the programme, or joining for those parts that you are able to, and exploring how it is to weave the spirit of retreat into the rest of your life.
Together we will explore how the practice of mindfulness meditation gives us insight into the nature of our experience and our minds, and helps us to cultivate what is beautiful for ourselves and for others. Instruction in meditation will help guide all participants into the sacred space of the retreat process. There will be teachings, Q&A sessions, chanting and small group meetings. Mika Hadar will also be offering Subtle Yoga on Sunday morning (see https://www.subtleyoga.co.uk/). There will be space and time for davening, for those that wish to.
Here is a preview of what we’ll be exploring:
Being on retreat during Chanukah, where we remember the resistance of the Maccabees to the idols of Antiochus, invites us to reflect: what are our own idols? What are we worshipping through our habits of thought and speech and action? How aligned are these patterns with whatever it is that we truly wish to dedicate ourselves to? How can we inquire here, and perhaps rededicate, without collapsing into self-judgment and self-criticism? This Chanukah, we will invite the light of awareness to expand as we support each other in a container of collective compassion, care and sacred aspiration.
We welcome people of all ages, of all faiths or none, beginners or experienced practitioners or anything in between.
There are three different rates for this online retreat.
Standard Rate: £50
Scholarship Rate: £20 – available to all who cannot afford the Standard rate
Supporter Rate: £80
The Supporter rate is an invitation to help keep HaMakom accessible to all by paying a higher rate, and thereby enabling those who would not otherwise be able to, to come on the retreat at a subsidised rate. We are deeply grateful to all those who allow us to offer scholarship rates to those who need them, and make available these powerful practices for grounding and healing.
In the Jewish tradition of generosity/Chesed, the teachings are offered freely. At the end of the retreat, there will be an invitation to make a donation to the teachers.
If you cannot afford the Scholarship rate please contact our Retreat Manager, Zac at: zac@hamakom.community. No one will be turned away because of their financial circumstances.
The Benefits of Jewish Mindfulness Meditation
(from: The Institute for Jewish Spirituality)
We are dedicated to introducing this practice into the Jewish world for several reasons:
- to enliven and enhance Jewish prayer, celebration, ritual and community;
- to be part of working for the betterment of our fragile and vulnerable planet; and
- to recognize the true and deep sources of happiness in a world filled with seductive, competing and ultimately unsatisfying short-term fixes.
How can Mindfulness Meditation Help?
Mindfulness meditation is training the mind. Just as we go to the gym to make our bodies stronger and more flexible, so mind training helps make our minds more spacious, perceptive and most of all free.
We train our capacity to pay attention by turning our attention, like a flashlight, on our own minds. This helps us see more clearly the nature of our own minds. We become aware of the patterns and habits that run our lives but have not been previously visible.
We begin to realize that these patterns and habits may serve our goals, desires, and purposes – but often they do not. We start to realize that there actually is a “pause button” built into our system. This pause button can be activated when we become triggered by an event outside ourselves and are tempted to act in reactive, patterned and unskilful ways.
The “pause button” wakes us up, creates a space in our mind where we can ask the question: ”What is the skilful, wholesome, wise, goal oriented action I need to take in this moment?” “What are my choices here?” The development of this capacity for inner freedom is why we train in mindfulness. This can be profoundly useful in our lives, especially in our relationships, and in any task we undertake to realize our dreams or express our creativity.
By cultivating attention, we are also able to feel more satisfied with each moment of our experience.
We learn to rest in this moment as it unfolds.
We learn to bring our awareness to the flow of energy in the body which is the very miracle of our aliveness. We learn to be more receptive to the fullness of each moment, rather than resisting what has already occurred or projecting what is not yet here. We learn to notice the arising and passing of all experience, recognizing how short and precious this life is.
We learn to treasure each day for the miracle it is. This is itself a source of happiness. According to modern neuroscience, the mind is a dynamic flow of experiences rather than a fixed state. When we experience this for ourselves, we feel less isolated, less caught in judgment and adversity, and more open to the mystery and majesty of this very life.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Meditation retreats can be beautiful and powerful journeys of healing and transformation. However, due to the intensity of the experience, they are not necessarily safe and appropriate for everyone at all times. We therefore ask potential participants to be aware of the following: If you have suffered an episode of mania in the last six months this retreat is not safe and appropriate for you. Please do join us on retreat when there has been more than six months since your last episode of mania. If you have ever received a diagnosis of psychosis, intensive meditation retreat is not safe and appropriate for you.
If you have a history of trauma or serious mental health challenges, retreat may be appropriate and beneficial for you. It is important that you are in touch with us in advance so that we can ensure this retreat will be supportive for you. We want to make retreat as welcoming as possible, and we look forward to hearing from you.